No, her wayward thinking is what did this. No med can explain away her actions. If she wants a divorce then she can make all the moves to get it done, including supporting her own self financially. You can show your son good boundaries by letting them know you have decided to respect yourself and will not be giving money to your WW. Your son can choose whether or not he will give money to her but your actions can be compassionate without being a doormat.
Don't lift one finger to aid her in running from her family. Make your home and life one that is appealing. Return to the person you were when you met her, most likely you were strong, confident and happy. Have you read Divorce Remedy?
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3
