Ciluzen, the vanilla ice cream with hot fudge sauce sounds delicious!
Yes, I think we should be grateful for the crisis as it made us rediscover ourselves and our needs after many years of being mostly wives and mothers. And even though we feel sorry for our spouses and what they have to go through and we hurt for the loss of what we had, we come to realise that there is not much we could do about their choices. I'm sure that no matter what the outcome, we come out of it stronger.