thanks hawker, maybs. I'm going to be just fine.

NYGAL, I love msmbc and beer.

I pissed the w off....

W finally texted asking if I was picking D up and keeping her over night. I told her yes. asked W what left over bills I was on for the house. Cable and Internet. I asked if we could switch them to her name she said she didn't know but i was "welcome to call" W also asked about looking into D. I told her that was not what I wanted so I was not going to look into it (I know I lied...I am looking into it) W asked what I wanted I told her to be with her. (I know this is bad DB) To which she replied
W- ok well that isn't the case for us.
I'm assuming US is her and D. W changed the subject.
By then I had already picked up the phone, called the cable company. they can't transfer it over to W. Told the lady I wanted to cancel it. The next billing cycle ends on the 15th. So the cable will be shut off then. Texted my W the details.
W - great. so I'm going to loose all my recordings. wonderful. thanks.
WTF! W is worried about her recordings...I lost EVERYTHING. and she's worried about her shows....

W also told me D has Spanish lessons (I am fluent never once did W ask me to teach her, but whatever) on Wednesdays (MY days) so The only day left Is Monday IF i want. I told her I have previous engagements and that I had scheduled Wednesdays just for D. W said too bad so sad (in diff words) but basically I'm out of luck. I also Called the internet company, they can transfer over ownership so we transferred it to her name.

to conclude W asked (even though I had already told her) what day the cable would be canceled. told her the 15th.
W- as in 4days?
me- yes that's when the new billing cycle starts / ends
W- wow, ok. go ahead and take over the rest of your bills effective today. and put an address change in with all the bills you have / the post office. no need to have anything coming to the house since you are now off all the bills from this house. thanks.

I told her I had already changed the address on my bills. but thank you for reminding me to do it with the post office.

To be clear I have not paid ANY of W's bills or house bills since May. They were simply under my name still. W was sending out a bill pay for my cell phone and a cc...W likes bill pay, and She offered in the beginning, when we were "figuring stuff out" I agreed but had slowly taken most of my bills back. Which is why she made the comment about me taking my bills back. Happily.

I know most / all WW's are crazy. Mine can just take it to another level. My W has a crazy side where she's ALWAYS said really bad and mean and disrespectful things out of anger. W also did stuff sometimes to "get back" at me. Which is why I'm a little...hesitant? maybe scared? of making her mad. She just takes crazy to a whole new level.

Emailed my insurance guy to get that ball rolling. I have a feeling W will drop me from the insurance any day now. The cell phones are under my name...Have a feeling she'll text me one day saying W and MIL have switched. Speaking of MIL she did text me once this past week. I kept it short and simple. Didn't engage.

Will see W on Thursday morning. As I am dropping D off at the house before school.

-never a dull moment here.


Me(W): 29 EXW: 30
T: 6 M: 2
SD: 10
BD: 04/2016
PS: 04/2016
W officially "seeing" someone 09/2016
W filed 03/2017
Officially Divorced 11/2017