Hi Kyh, is it something your w is/was pushing for? It's not easy with them, I know. You never know what they think and how they feel about things. I can understand why you're not sure how to handle it. My h is talking about divorce/seeing a lawyer together here and there but sometimes I get a feeling it's just to test me. And since we agreed that kids stay with me and he continues paying some bills and mortgage, I never really felt it was urgent for me to see a lawyer. I guess your case is different. Not easy! Good luck no matter what you decide to do!
