It appears that our H have it all when they leave the freedom the fun the OW We are alone, dealing with jobs, cleaning up the mess, finances and kids
But the consequences come much later for them and they always seem to come and probably not one MLCer out there that would look back on the wreck they participated in and say it was the right thing unfortunately, many of them pick poor affair partners with issues and lose everything
Our hard work does pay off--and leads us to an inner peace and that is something that can't be bought..It comes from hard work and commitment to ourselves..
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow