Follow the 37 rules. 180 this woman hard. DO NOT finance her fantasy. Reality is going to set in very quickly because she latched on to such a loser. When it does she's going to crash hard. Don't be there to catch her. People only learn a lesson if they crash without a safety net.
Read the information in the links that has been posted for you. Don't try to reason with your wife right now because she has gone temporarily insane and can't be reasoned with.
