It's amazing. Every person I know, outside of this board, think that she acceptance in going to MC is a good thing. I see that it is not.
The people you are talking with are probably not people who spend endless hours working on a forum like this one. Those people want to say something encouraging, and of course they think MC should help, b/c that is what MC does....right? MC does not stand a chance if one person does not desire to do whatever it takes to save that M. I have not seen MC save one M that had a WW. B/c she is wayward! She's resistant & rebellious to anything that does not fully agree with her selfish desires.
Just to clarify, once the W repents from her waywardness, and she is willing to do whatever it takes to save her M....then a good MC dealing with couples healing after affairs, is advisable.
Last edited by Cadet; 10/11/1609:50 AM. Reason: Start a new thread message
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
