Yeah I guess it does. I assume I'm still in the infancy of separation... 5 Weeks of this feels like a lifetime of pain and trying to second guess everything makes everything worse (even when I know that second guessing is a dangerous thing to be doing)!!!

How far along are you Doodler? It seems that there are a lot of guys on here that are well weathered in this situation, I guess each person has to make their own journey and figure their own route.

I've seen bitterness encroach in my own Sister when dealing with her divorce and am desperate not to go down the same route.


M - 36 / W - 32
S - 3
Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs
Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016
Moved out - 4th Sept 2016