Thanks Cnut, I didn't have the same problem regarding being treated as a husband. My W did treat me as a husband, and a darn good one at that despite my downfalls for the longest time. I just didn't reciprocate that unfortunately. I agree that there is no justification for an A and that wasn't what I was trying to say. I just wanted you guys to have a little more clarity as to what she was dealing with for the last couple years.
As for the stressful job: I talked to my boss and told him that it has caused me a great deal of troubles and told him that he would need to make some changes happen if he intended to keep me around. So far those changes have been implemented, so we will see where that takes us.
