Hi Si_07, it was good reading through your story and I take a lot positives from your situation.

I myself am only 5 weeks into this torrid situation. My W left after we had been together for 18 years, married for 10 and with a 3.5 year old son. The reason being that I have been controlling and failed to listed - but apparently this was like the flick of a switch.

There has been little to no communication and I feel so lost.

I'm only 36 so my entire adult life has been with her and I got my validation from her. I know that I've come so far (even in just 5 weeks), but I have no idea how I am supposed to drag myself through each day.

Bravo to you though fella.

M - 36 / W - 32
S - 3
Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs
Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016
Moved out - 4th Sept 2016