Sadly .. my H has finally done it. He has pushed me to the breaking point and I see that I must detach. I sent him a text to no longer contact me unless it is about finances or our daughter.
I will stop paying his bills this month, he will no longer deposit his paycheck into our joint account, and he will have to fend for himself. This is his choice and his crisis. I don't see how he can survive since he is living way beyond his means, but it is not my place to judge or enable.
I will stand and be a lighthouse to him .. but I will no longer be caught up in his whirlwind of crazy. This is the absolute hardest thing I have ever done. Please pray that I am strong and I can hold this position.
Me: 42 Him: 45 Daughter: 13 ____________________________________ Married 16 Years, Together 17 Years BD: 8/15/16 Moved out: 8/26/16
