Another topic that I have handled poorly over the years is my friend. As I have mentioned previously I have a friend who I have had since we were like 6 years old. We very rarely go a day without talking to each other. I have always let my wife feel like she was second place to him, even though in my heart she never was. But I NEVER EVER told her this...why wouldn't I tell her this? WTF is wrong with me. When my W and friend got into arguments/disagreements, or even when one of them was just rude to the other, I NEVER EVER stepped in to defend my W. I always just let them hash it out. Why would I not defend my W when she is the most important thing in my life...why would I just dismiss it? I seriously let my W, the most important person in the world to me, feel like she was second place for so many years...how do I live with myself for that?

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