My son had a soccer game this weekend. I went, but ex WW had him this weekend. He played well. I met him halfway across the field. ex WW waited.
When I got in my car and left, I waved to him, but not to ex WW. She gave me a stare-down and an angry look and half-wave to me, like she was mad I didn't wave. I told her two weeks ago I finally had enough venom in the texts - she needed to stop, and I would only respond to texts that concerned the kids. I told her she was not someone I ever want to be associated with, and I would like to never see her again.
Since then, it's been better. But the times I have seen her she looks tormented. She's got our old house, her man, and her life. I don't think it will make her happy, but it's no longer my concern. Your W and my ex-WW are the same, from your description. Mine could never give of herself - lots of taking, no giving. No concern for me, just for her. It feels so good to be free of that constant worry of how my ex-ww would be, what I needed to do, what mistakes I would make (perfection is what she expected from me)... just great to have no expectations from someone I love.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)
