CT-

I read your post, closed my laptop to go to sleep, but could not.

It's too much. You've gone too far. Sometimes a marriage or a person has had just too much damage done. Being strong is good but strength by itself isn't wisdom. Sometimes we have to know when to end a journey. Or recognize that what we thought was a journey is only keeping us in one place.

You can keep loving your W has a person and a friend. But you deserve happiness. You deserve a healthy partner. We all do.

I think you should file.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final