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Now... I understand that you WANT him to ask you to M him again, etc. But is he the kind of guy that would never even think of doing that because he has DONE that and is M to you? Would he THINK that is something that you WANT or have you shown him your practical side in the past? Maybe it never even enters his mind because he figures you might think we are already married, why do that again?





Oh, I hear you, holdingon...the blahblahblah in my post was to show that I know I'm clinging to BS --

which is why I decided today that I HAVE a new m, with or without the proposal

My clinging to the past is detrimental and hurtful to both of us...I'm moving forward with my new man!

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.