Detached, getting along better, but in limbo....

[Surfer]

Thank you both. If a separation agreement can help to focus on she only has a limited sum of the money she has available to make her next move that should do it. I.e you might have your hands on £75k of cash but spending more than £30k will be totally unreasonable and even then you will need to account for what is spent as it's not just your money. Need to work out how best to get this across.

I will speak to L about this.

Thanks.

Surfer.