Detached, getting along better, but in limbo....

[Cherry]

Great advise from Sara there. Perhaps the separation agreement will be the knee jerk that she needs in order to help her see reality. Right now, although living apart, she still has the safety net of your money. I think you are best putting some control on the situation there. I completely get where you are coming from with regards to not wanting to rock the boat with regards to the recent calm, but I think you truly need to protect yourself just in case.