Went out to dinner with a friend last night. I haven't seen her in a few months so it was fun and relaxing to catch up. We have an "easy" friendship -- very little drama, very little angst -- just good conversations and mostly over good food!
High on the positives yesterday...h continues to delight me with his attention to our $ sitch. He recently put plans in place to bring in some $ and he's been tremendously organized and focused around it.
He mentioned last night that he had ordered us a few surprises What I didn't tell him is that I had ALSO ordered him a surprise or two. This may seem to fly in the face of positive number 1 ($$) but I'm pretty sure the surprises were low on dollars, high on satisfaction. He told me that one of the surprises was something that he's wanted for a long time. I'm happy that he's getting it -- I really want him to know and believe that his desires are doable.
H told me last night as we were going to sleep that when he comes to bed after me and I'm already asleep he gives me a big hug. How can I not love this?
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
What I didn't tell him is that I had ALSO ordered him a surprise or two. This may seem to fly in the face of positive number 1 ($$) but I'm pretty sure the surprises were low on dollars, high on satisfaction. He told me that one of the surprises was something that he's wanted for a long time. I'm happy that he's getting it -- I really want him to know and believe that his desires are doable.
