We just have differences of opinions as to our intimacy. I have always been Hyper-sexual and she has always, been Hypo-sexual...at least since we had kids.
Believe it or not – the difference is appetite is more common than you think. A lot of couple struggle with it. It can be addressed though – if both people find a happy medium.
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She says that she feels like we are roommates and best friends, but that she doesn't feel that we have an intimate relationship.
Do you know what she values when she says “intimate”? I suspect that what she feels is intimate may not be what you think it is.
I am going to reach out to a poster that I know – his name is ForeverYoung. I would like you to read his story. I think you may see some similarities.
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Enter the EA with a relatively new family friend...April-July '16. July is also when she shut the door to me. This bastard is a mind fu@&*ing piece of $#!^. I have grown to despise him, but I feel I let the wolf into the hen house.
I get being pissed off with the dude. Right now though….let focus on making YOU the better option.
First you need to read the homework stuff that was posted on your thread. Have you?
Second – do me a favor and write down 10 goals for YOURSELF that you have. Things that can be done over the next six months.
Third – do not push her right now.
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My problem is that it seems that she is getting more angry at me daily, because I am not giving in to the fact that she wants out.
When, how, what exactly happens that she angry at?
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I'm not saying that I'm the best H in the world, but I'm not chopped liver either.
What are the things that are not “the best H” about you?
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but I just don't want to get to a place where I get upset and bitter at her.
Remember this ^^^^^ and CHOOSE it.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
