Have you considered coming up with a more consistent schedule for the kids? Doing so would create consistency for the kids, which is good and also allow both of YOU to see what schedule would work best for both of you.
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When asked what she couldn't forgive me for she said vague things like "everything you have done" and "all the control you had". Never specifics. After we stopped going to therapy, literally as we were walking out she says "I'm so happy that's over. Only reason I was going was so that when we divorce it looks like I really tried to make it work". Wtf?!?!?!!
As for some of her comments – believe none of what they say and half of what they do. Do you think you were controlling? Prior to the bomb, did she complain about anything?
Does she work?
Beside working out…what else are you doing for YOURSELF?
Do you feel that you need to improve things about yourself – if so, what and why?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
