So nothing really new to report over the last few days since Friday. W has been very distant with me, but I don't think it's about me or R. She really has a lot going on. I've been getting more one word texts and she has been really quiet. Yesterday when I got back from work I could tell she was stressed out. I just told her I'm here to listen if you she needed to talk about anything. Later in the evening we went to neighbors and she was very distant and quiet with them as well. Even one of neighbors pointed out what I seem to notice as well and said it looked like she had been crying all day.
I ended up sending her the following text:
cbtdad: W just answer me this please. School? Work? Horse? Me? All of the Above? I'm just worried about you

W: All of the above. When I need you to worry I'll tell you
W: Don't stress

I didn't respond to that as I just wanted to see what was going on
I know she has a ton on her plate and it's actually about to get busier. One thing I know is that I can't control her stress level or happiness. I can only try and do my best to not add any stress to her plate.
I started reading "co-dependent no more" yesterday.
I really like the book so far

M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it