Sorry you are finding yourself here, sorry your wife is going through a MLC and I am really sorry she is having an affair with someone that was your best friend. I don't think there is an easy way out of this, I often feel like giving up, but then something keeps me going. I think if you work on yourself you will be able to handle whatever the outcome is better, maybe try to concentrate on that for now. Don't pay too much attention to the affair, it is usually a side effect and not the cause of the problem .
"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"
“There is freedom waiting for you, On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?”
