Holy heck! This looks like another book for the "Betsey must read" pile.
Is delving into childhood anti DB? I'm not so sure about that, Sage. The fact is that most of us (if not all) bring baggage into our marriages that originated in childhood. We just seem to need a concrete reason to get rid of it--because most of it is based on incorrect perceptions and distorted memories.
I know that a significant part of my own growth on this road has quite a bit to do with confronting the demons of my past. Surely I'm not alone in my own canoe?
This is really heady stuff... thanks (as always) for giving me more to think about. I think you'd make a great teacher...
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
