Originally Posted By: ForeverYoung
Originally Posted By: roist

It may be coincidence but there appears to be slightly better interactions in the last few days. Not world changing but noticeable.More conversation more openness and slightly closer position on the couch.


It's weird, but sometimes even when our spouses aren't "into" us, they really don't want to lose us any more than we want to lose them. I think this is especially true in a MLC situation when there is no OP. Keep this in mind as you move forward. wink

That, and the power of positive thinking will take you a long way.


Thanks FY. Sometimes I am tempted to test that theory. wink


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together