Detached, getting along better, but in limbo....

[Cherry]

Once you have spoken to an L you will feel a little bit more in control of the situation. Always best to have your ducks in a row and know where you stand with things.

Whatsapp seems to be the portal for A's, that's how I rumbled him. It's really best not to think too much about it, you're just hurting yourself.

You were doing quite well previously when you put the focus fully back on to you, so I'm glad to see you are kick starting a new regime to focus upon, and that you had a good weekend with your friends.

It's hard for the children, especially as they kind of know what is going on. I think the best thing you can do with that is what you are doing, let them see that they are still loved regardless.

As hard as it is, just leave her and her wayward ways alone for a while- step back. She is going to be all over the place for a while. But we know that this is their own internal conflict, and not really anything to do with us.