I haven't read your other threads, so maybe I am missing something and my following assessment is totally off the mark, but the sense I get from this thread is not so much that your wife is about to bolt or BD you, but that you are very insecure and worry that she will. And I get the impression you are timid or holding back from her out of fear that will happen. Are you creating a self-fulfilling prophesy? If there is something missing from the marriage, try putting it back in the marriage. She might surprise you.
