I'll be honest blue, I don't know how you decided to accept your WH back into your life after a year, because I am 6 mos in and my walls are so high tha I don't see any way she could ever get past them to come back to me. I still hope one day I will get a true apology, but I'm past ever expecting that, and I'm past caring if I don't...
Coconut,
I feel the same way that you do. I guess everyone's situation is a bit different. In my case, I don't see any possibility of reconciliation because I don't think my wife has the ability or capacity to really understand how much damage was done just because she chose her "best friend" over her family. I could be wrong, but I truly don't see it happening. For me, I'm fairly certain that waiting and hoping would be a useless exercise so my choice is to move on and be a great dad and have fun with life.
