He is afraid STBXH is going to flee the country, or maybe already has. I have to admit that possibility that he might do so has occurred to me, as well. A person has to be off their rocker to violate a court order so blatantly.

Just like the time I discovered that WH may have filed for D, I found this one out right before a holiday weekend. I tried to contact my Ls, but one was in trial all day Friday, and I never heard a word from the other one. Each received emails from me bright and early Friday morning, and now all I'm left with is to wait until
Tuesday.

Breathing. Centering.

Trying not to let this freak me out, and beyond the anger and disgust, I'm mostly keeping succeeding. As long as I don't think about it too much.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16