Yes I'm good thanks. I have a thread in the midlife crisis area of the forum now. XH decided to file for D, despite my DBing efforts. Now when I look back, ours was a shortish R with no kids together and geographical distance upon S too. I think the odds were probably pretty long for us...and I have mostly accepted things.
I got a new job, we resolved all the finances and I just bought a new house. I have done lots of GAL activities, and that has really helped...so life is pretty good. I don't hear from XH and I don't think about him all that much. I certainly don't particularly feel in pain about the situation, apart from occasionally.
So, generally doing fine & thanks for asking...hope you'll keep posting - it's nice to hear from you.
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T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
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