Quote: how I'm always looking for a new "solution" in a book or something.
OMG! Guess who has practically every parenting book ever written?
Quote: Maybe the one who's resisting ME being ME is ME?
Why do think that it? Is it fear of H having a problem with this again? Perhaps (as you've suggested), HE no longer has a problem with this part of you, perhaps HE has come to see the value and appreciates this side of you.....
Quote: but there's NO reason to not start LIVING with acceptance of yourself today, right?
hmmmm....I wonder who it was that posted this on my thread just this morning......