She wasn't asking me to move out, she just didn't want me in the house last night, and wanted me to stay at my parents for the night.

I did get up and took an hour long walk around the park near us, and she took or S to a friend's house to play. she'll be back afterwards tho.

I'll follow the advice given, it sounds good. I guess you guys don't advise I compliment her, or go out of my way to try aND woo back? at what point would all the happen?

Coconut, u advise I try and get to a place where she thinks I'm ok with her leaving. damn, that's a hard one.

fyi, she saw my phone messages between me and OMs W, and included in it was me mentioning I'm trying to save my marriage and I still love my wife. Is that a setback, or will it go over ok?

thanks.


M 40 W 40
S 2.5
Together 13 years
Married 11 years
BD: 09/23/16
PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16
Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16
A ended 10/10/16