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Told me that he wanted a D., no longer loved me, never did, it "never felt right", etc.




So Sage, does your h say ILY now. You said since you started db-ing, he's been very loving, but I'm wondering if he says the words now and how that came about?




mom2two...

yes, my h does say ILY every day. I am very lucky for many reasons...h's verbal offering of his love is a big one to me.

I was trying to think last night how it "came about" as you asked and to be honest, I don't recall (shocking!). I DO know that I had stopped saying it and had stopped talking about the future given the whole bomb dropping and all...but when he first said it again I'm not sure.

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.