WHs do come back--Piecing--acceptance & time

[Coly23]

Great post Blu. Maybe the principles of DB are eventually instinctual after we have done all the things that don't work and MWD's books are a way of making us see this much ealier on so we don't go through months of doing the wrong things?

I think my instinct to let this go is kicking in but it hurts even more now that I am being forced to make a decision I don't want. But like you say life still goes on especially if you have kids you have to creat some sort of normality for them eventually.

I know me and D will be okay. I guess for me it's looking at those mountains I still have to climb over to get there but I still don't think I have the right gear to make those climbs. Maybe it's just taking that leap of faith to the other side in the knowledge that I will survive, I need to get that into my head.

Thanks for all your advice and support Blu. Without you I think I would still be dancing to H's tune desperate to get him back whilst making myself look like a doormat!!