Nutts,

Do not move out, if your WW brings it up again, tell her if she needs space she can go..

Don't do anything else for now, I think what you did is something you needed to do for you, and now you need to let the chips fall where they may. Your WW is threatening you because you messed up her perfect fantasy plans, she can no longer have you and OM without friction, and she doesn't like it.

Any important thing that she asks you now, just tell her that you need to think about that and get back to her, then take time to ask and really decide. Don't rush any decisions, your spinning, she's spinning, good decisions are hard to come by when your like that.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized