You're right, and it's not harsh...just honest...she has her life and her path. And I shouldn't be a part of it. She doesn't need me in it to spend time with S. She needs to carry her own load and I need to be doing my own things.
I think sometimes it just helps to have someone impartial to life to bounce these things off of and I'm glad to have somewhere to go where someone else understands. Thanks
She did leave after 8 years of marriage. It wasn't until 6 months after she left I learned about OM that she had left with. But that's all pretty ancient now. It seems everyone else that has a story of being left mustered their strength so quickly in comparison and got their lives together. Its taking me so long to get there.
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10
