I understand that you aren't comfortable w/sharing a lot about your life and my last posting didn't ask for personal info from you. It was to inform you that you can continue on one thread at a time and change your subject line each time you have a new question. I can edit the posting on this forum that has some of your personal info on it, but I can't edit the original posting over in Newcomers. You can let me know about this and I'll be happy to delete the info for you.
We visit the threads each and every day and sometimes more often and when we see a new posting pop up, we come to visit and are more than willing to answer any question that is posed by the poster on that thread regardless of the background info. Questions are always welcome, but we do ask that posters stick to one thread at a time.
Why not give it a go and see how this works for you? I post on a number of forums and I can assure you that this is one of the better Forums out there...but that's your choice to make, i.e., whether to give it a go here or try another internet forum. Any forum that you visit will have a set of rules of some sort. I don't make the rules for this Forum, I just follow them and advise others of the rules. I'm sorry.