[quote=2Lady]Sorry, but I just don't have enough to say about myself here now to fill 100 posts, nor the time. I'm just not really comfortable with sharing a lot about my life with strangers. I have never been one to talk about my personal life this way as it really doesn't do me a lot of good and I feel I have already opened up more than I really wanted to do so because of this rule. The rules actually are stifling me from getting the sort of support I need, which is to ask questions without having to share about myself. By burying the questions in a personal thread rather than a separate thread with an appropriate title, it becomes a random stream about myself, which makes me uncomfortable, rather than a topic-focused discussion, which is the sort of discussion I benefit from. If this is going to keep up then I may be better off leaving because it's just not structured the way that helps me. [/quote]

It's one of the site rules, so I expect it will continue.

It's not my preference either, but the person who pays for the site gets to make the rules.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16