My point was also that we should be careful about reading too much negativity, because we are influenced by others and if everyone around us is b@tching then we may unconsciously start to believe b@tching is the right way to go.
One can describe what their spouse is doing and then spin it two ways. Both may be venting, but one may be saying I am frustrated but I will be patient because it is a symptom of his suffering. and the other say he's an SOB for what he is doing.
It's all about our attitude.
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