Hey NYGal! I've just been reading your sitch over the past few days from BD to reconciliation. Wow, what a rollercoaster! I'm so happy though that you are reconciling at last with your W!

I'm going dark at the moment, nearly four weeks in and I am struggling so to read that you had such a tough time as well helps me to see that I am not going totally crazy!! I am feeling every bit of anxiety you felt and am questioning whether it is working. My D has also decided to go dark so there is no excuse to see or speak to H at the moment. He has tried to get in touch with D but she has ignored all his texts and calls. She is much better at this than I am!

I moved over from Newcomers to the MLC board as I think H is going through some sort of crisis. The lovely people over there, especially Job, assure me that H will eventually get in touch so I just have to be patient but that unfortunately is not one of my virtues!!

Hope everything is going well in the land of piecing!!


Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')