OM's W just asked me to send her my W's phone number. I'm not sure I should do that.

Part of me wants to, hoping it will get her to end the A, but at the same time, if I do this, W will be furious with me, and will want to move the D as fast as possible.

I don't think I can send her the phone number, at least not right now, but wanted to see if there was any advice here.

Thanks.

M 40 W 40
S 2.5
Together 13 years
Married 11 years
BD: 09/23/16
PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16
Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16
A ended 10/10/16