Oh Phoebe, I'm so sorry that H has acted like a&& again.
Do you think this might be a sign that he is getting himself into some big stuff that he was desperate enough to violate the financial restraining order? Maybe he's lost his job and got himself into a mess with the drugs and wreckless lifestyle he is now leading. But whatever the reason, he should not have done this to you.
Hang in there Phoebe, just another bump in the road (maybe a little bigger than a bump!).
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')