I had a text to say she was on a train heading home and all was well... didn't bother reponding.
I sent a text about clothes for D3 and if she had any that were too small I had someone interested in them and I would be going to see her in a few weeks.. got no response.
I received an email, kinda half hearted backlash that I was expecting trying to use the house as leverage as it's all she has. She wants a valuation carried out, I said no problem just co-ordinate with me so i'm present when someone enters my home. She said we would speed this up if we agree to waive our rights to each others pension, I said no problem as I have no interest in her pension.
She has been the main bread earner in this relationship as I moved around jobs while supporting her career. In the past year I pushed for an engineering job (i'm not an engineer) and got it. I was working on the production floor of the company and from many accounts I have done something unheard of withiin the company. I have had considerable positive remarks from my boss that he values me higher than some of his other engineers. In some ways, I have gone above her in my career by pushing myself forward while, in a number of ways, she has at best stayed still but in some ways has gone backwards. I have offered to buy her out of the house as I can afford it by myself once my tax code changes in the new year, it makes a big difference to my income.
Sorry I detoured from the episode...
For the past several months W knows of a loophole where she can charge me rent for her half of the house (she is still part owner at present). She has used this on several occasions to tell me she was going to start charging me in August but I had explained all the missed joint payments she had which covered my 'rent' for August and September. I offered her 200 a month for her rent' which would be due to start this month.. I checked the account expecting her to have put in 300 but find she has put in 1000 with no explaination....
I then went to watch S7 soccer training after work yesterday only to find he wasn't there and W didn't let the trainers know. He has a tournament on Sunday that I will go too, hopefully she brings him to it...
I have no explaination to things and am not going to try... On to the weekend and next weeks episode..
