I don't want to forget to post these specific positives so I'm gonna post early.

h has called me 2-3 times today just to say "hi". This is actually over and above the 2-3 calls I normally get! It's weird and wonderful..he just seems to want to chat. The conversations are only about five minutes long but I think he's liking telling me that he's thinking about me.

Also, h is planning a "surprise date" for tonight. I think I've mentioned this before but it bears repeating..it's cool because I think for a long time (years?) h didn't feel as though he could "please" me...and going out on a limb to plan a surprise date is both bold but also a sign of confidence. lucky, lucky girl.

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.