I confronted my W about the OM. We talked calmly for a bit, she giving me the "Well, do you blame me!?" after a bit. I guess after I kept on (I was angry), she started to cry, and then stormed off in tears.
I stopped her before she left, and while I was angry, my heart was hurting for her crying. It's the strangest thing, I still love her, and when she cries, it hurts my heart.
However, before she left for her mom's she asked me if I had contacted OM, I said no, why, she says, "Just wondering how far I'd go" I guess she thinks talking to the OM is awful, well, I wonder how she'll fell that I sent a message to OM's W.
It was sent via FB messenger, and I can see she has messenger too, so she should get notified of it at least. Guess we'll see what happens. I don't have any real proof to show, but my W agreed it happened, and when she said, "I dated him" I said, "You mean you [censored] his brains out!" she just kind of looked at me.
She's now more sure it's over than ever. I don't see how this ends well. We were amicable before this, I do hope we get back to that at some point at least.
Thanks for listening guys. I'm going to get a beer somewhere, see if my buddy wants to join me.
M 40 W 40 S 2.5 Together 13 years Married 11 years BD: 09/23/16 PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16 Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16 A ended 10/10/16
