New LBH with WAW/possibly WW, need help.

[Coconut]

If doodler was around, I'm sure he woulda said that you shoulda waited until she was reconnecting the red wires and then quickly flipped the breaker back on...

All kidding aside, it does seem as though she is trying to set up her perfect life, the chandelier she picked out, the light switch covers she so loved, etc... Blah blah blah.

I think it's a bit unusual, but who cares about that stuff. Look, if you have a lot of cash, you may want to protect 1/2, if you have credit cards with a lot of available credit you may want to call and lower the credit limit, but let her do her thing. She will eventually have everything she thought she wanted and still find herself miserable.

I walked out of my big house with 3 pieces of furniture, 1 bowel, 1 plate, and about 5 cups, and my grills and grill accessories. I let her have everything else, cause I don't need that stuff to be happy. Let her do her thing, let her see what she thinks will make her happy won't.