New LBH with WAW/possibly WW, need help.

[nutts]

Well, I came home, and the wife had been working on the home. She'd taken down many of the light switch panels and put on the originals we had, and had taken down the light fixture in the dining room and trying to put up an old one.

I asked her,
Why are you doing this?" She says, "I just felt like it." I'm like, "What? Come on, really why did you do it?" She says, "I was looking for something to do."

I said, "You planning on taking them with you?" She says, "Well, they're not staying here."

There you go, it's obvious she's 100% serious about moving out, and the next step after that is D.

I told her, "You're doing this stuff without asking me? Is this not our house?" Of course, she gets defensive, "It's not a big deal, you don't care about them anyway." (which is kind of true, but still.

I'm angry right now. She went upstairs in a huff, I went to the basement, and here I am.

I need to cool off a bit. I'm hoping to go out with a friend tonight, and if not, I'll go watch some sports at a bar for a bit, get out.