Originally Posted By: mvgfwd2
MCs don't seem to go as hoped when both parties are not committed to fixing the M. If you are committed but she is not you will likely be disappointed with the outcome.


I can agree with this. Before my W walked out on me she briefly suggested going to MC. I half hearted agreed but I knew in my heart I didn't want to save my M so even if we went (we never did) I knew it would be pointless. In my eyes my W brought nothing to the table to want to save the marriage so why bother with MC?

It was only after she slammed my head with a 2X4 by walking out on me did I realize my W did have a lot of things to bring to the marriage table.


M 55 W 52
MR 32 T 34+
D29
BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out
ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email)
No EA/PA
August 23 - DB used against me in every way
Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day