I think they try to connect because they still have feelings for us AND they feel guilty for some of what they do to us and their families. They are trying to make themselves happier, but making others hurt is hurting them more. What a mess.

That's why we need to just let them be and be the lighthouse when they try to see their way through the dark every once in a while.


M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

Kindness, kindness, kindness.