In the end we were able to come back together and she said that she wants to be with me. Said that she knows these last couple of weeks aren't permanent and if she thought things couldn't change she would have left already. I am trying to be very patient. I really am.
From all your recent comments, this is what I think you need to remember.Your W is going nowhere any time soon. Relax, take the pressure off and then do what you need to be doing. You can do this. Dig deep for that patience
Best wishes
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together