I am a newbie -- my H moved about a little of a month ago. He stated he was filing ASAP. Then a few weeks ago, he freaked when he saw some divorce print out I had gotten (just for research). Now he says we can start talking about filing after the holidays. I don't know if this helps -- but my H seemed so sure at first but then he changes his mind. Same with the finances -- he wanted responsibility for all his bills, but won't take the steps needed to move them or even change the passwords. He is still only taking a small allowance and leaving the rest of his check in our joint account.
Me: 42 Him: 45 Daughter: 13 ____________________________________ Married 16 Years, Together 17 Years BD: 8/15/16 Moved out: 8/26/16